Today while I was on my way home I got to thinking about girls and self-confidence. I am not going to lie and say that at times I don’t feel self-conscious or wish that I was skinnier and looked like the girls you see on TV and in movies because I do, then again who doesn’t? That is the problem, so many people wish they looked the girls that they see in the media that they forget to see the beauty within themselves.
Sure I myself am not the best looking person in the world and most of the time guys don’t notice me, should that matter? Should this force me to change who I am? Of course not. Why should I change who I am because a guy or someone doesn’t notice because obviously if he didn’t notice he isn’t good enough for me. A guy who judges a girl based on the way she looks is an immature jerk. Yes, looks are what attracts a person but if a person is hot but can’t hold a conversation what is the point? Personality is truly what matters.
So yes i do have self-confidence, and great personality. If a guy will not take the time to get to know me then they are missing out on a person who can: keep a conversation going, has a sense of humor, I am smart and many more things; I have a great personality and to myself, I am beautiful and that is all that matters.
So girls just remember you are beautiful not matter your shape or size, and if you don’t have a boyfriend(or girlfriend) and you thing that matters it doesn’t. There is someone out their for you, you just have to wait for that person to come. Cherish every moment you have with your family and friends because one day your prince charming will come just believe that he will.
~Jennifer~
